Dear Little Bro and (almost) Sister In Law,
You're getting MARRIED! Married!
You guys are going to take wedding vows...
for richer, for poorer...in sickness and in health.Every marriage is different. You probably know that with Ben and I, we've mostly been blessed with mostly health (so far), and lots of poorness.
I hope you guys get all the health and all the richness (and you share some with us). But, if you don't...I know you can count on your shared Catholic faith to see you through.
I wrote a post awhile back, called 7 Ways to Happily Every After. Maybe you read it. Maybe you didn't.
So, I'll just take this chance to give you some big sisterly advice....because that is what big sisters are for.
Grace and Forgiveness
The two words you need to remember at all times. Always extend grace and forgiveness to the other person. Grace and forgiveness are what keeps a marriage going. Grace when your spouse doesn't live up to your expectations....and forgiveness when they hurt you. And, keep in mind, you will do as just as much of the not living up to expectations and hurting the other person, as they will do to you.
As long as you extend grace and forgiveness...there will be a better day.
As good ole' G.K. said:
Marriage is certainly an adventure and there are some distinctly duel-like properties to it. It's the most wonderful duel there is, however and I'm so excited for both of you. En garde!
We love you and can't wait to see you soon! Just as long as you don't serve this wedding cake that is.
|Picture from CakeWrecks.com|
|Picture from CakeWrecks. This is a cake wreck if I ever saw one!|